Featured In Condé Nast Traveler: Who Gets a Plus-One at a Destination Wedding? (Insights from Akeshi)
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In a recent feature on the esteemed Condé Nast Traveler, our owner, Akeshi Akinseye, celebrated for orchestrating luxurious and unforgettable weddings, sheds light on the delicate topic of plus-one etiquette for destination weddings. With her wealth of knowledge and experience, Akeshi offers sage advice to couples navigating this tricky terrain.
Destination Wedding Plus-One Dilemma
Planning a destination wedding involves myriad considerations, one of the most sensitive being the plus-one etiquette. The expertly crafted feature delves into how couples can gracefully handle the invitation process while considering guests’ expectations and emotions.
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Akeshi’s Expert Guidelines:
1. Clarity from the Get-Go: Akeshi suggests that clarity is fundamental in avoiding misunderstandings. Couples should be explicit on invitations, specifying whether a guest can bring a plus-one. Clearly addressing the invite to the individual or couple invited eliminates ambiguity.
2. Consider Relationship Status: Akinseye advises couples to consider the seriousness of guests' relationships when extending plus-one invites. Giving plus-ones to guests in significant relationships shows respect and understanding for their bond.
3. Keep Consistency: It’s crucial to be consistent with plus-one rules to avoid hurt feelings and confusion. For instance, if only engaged or married couples receive plus-ones, this rule should apply to all guests to ensure fairness.
4. Allow Exceptions: While consistency is key, Akeshi acknowledges there should be room for exceptions. Close relatives and best friends might warrant special consideration, demonstrating the couple's appreciation for their support.
Crafting Invitations with Care
The plus-one etiquette at destination weddings can indeed be a conundrum, but with Akeshi Akinseye’s expert advice as featured on Condé Nast Traveler, couples can navigate this challenging aspect with grace and sensitivity. Crafting a guest list for a destination wedding is an art and a science, necessitating clear communication, empathy, and fairness.
With these guiding principles, couples can set the stage for a harmonious, joy-filled celebration that honors their love and respects their cherished guests. For more wisdom on planning an exquisite destination wedding, Akeshi’s insights are indispensable.
